I’ve never been very good at sharing. I am the oldest of 4 children, so I had my fair share (ha! see what I did there?) of practice. Nonetheless when I started dating my husband and he often recommended we share our dishes at restaurants, I experienced an inner battlefield of indignation. I agreed because I was on my best behavior in this new incredible relationship but inside I was a petulant child; No, it’s MINE!!! It didn’t take too long for him to discover my true selfish colors. When he asked to share my Icecream one day, my pretenses crumbled. I can put on a happy face and share my salad but Icecream is where I draw the line my friends. I do not share things that I lick. Will.not.do.it. No Icecream, no Popsicles, no lollipops and no cereal for that matter. Something about the milk dropping out of your mouth back into the bowl gives me the heeby jeebys. We all have our idiosyncrasies. Thankfully, he loves me anyway and we get along just fine. He stays away from my Icecream and I share nearly every other acceptable meal with him. Relationships are all about compromise people.
Now, on to cake. Thankfully you don’t have to share this cake. You are not going to want to. You can have your very own ramekin and slurp it down greedily in the corner if you wish. I tried to do that but Marvel’s sweet little face made it impossible. My sharing muscles have been getting a major workout since getting married and having our girl. I just can’t escape the inevitable big blinky eyes coaxing me to give them a bite.
Individual Flourless Chocolate Cake with Cherry Sauce
Chocolate Cake – Serves 4
- 4 oz cacao butter
- 1/2 cup cacao powder, more for dusting ramekins
- 1/4 cup honey
- 1/4 cup coconut oil, more for greasing
- 4 tbsp coconut sugar
- 3 farm fresh eggs
- 1 tsp freshly scraped vanilla bean, approximately 2 vanilla beans
- Preheat oven to 350
- Grease and lightly dust 4 6-8 oz ramekins
- Place cacao butter, cacao powder, honey, vanilla and coconut oil in a double boiler or in a glass bowl atop a boiling kettle.
- Once cacao butter is completely melted, stir and take off heat
- Using a beater by hand, beat sugar and egg until just combined.
- Add in chocolate sauce and combine
- Pour batter evenly into 4 ramekins
- Bake for about 20 minutes
- While cake is baking, make cherry sauce
- 2 cups halved and pitted cherries
- 1/4 cup maple syrup
- 1 tbsp balsamic vinegar
- 1 tbsp lemon juice
- 1 tsp arrowroot starch
- In a saucepan, bring all ingredients except arrowroot starch to a boil over medium heat
- Stir a few times
- After about 3 minutes add arrowroot
- When sauce starts to thicken, 2-3 minutes later, take off heat
- Let cool slightly, pour onto cooled cake and enjoy – by yourself or with others if you’re feeling generous 😉
Health is something that I don’t often fully appreciate until it’s compromised. I guess that is one perk of not being well; when you get well again you are so grateful for your vitality that you vow to take better care of yourself from then on. With my health being less than optimal these last few months I decided I needed to get myself back on track. I took myself to a naturopathic physician to find a solution. A bunch of tests were taken and a few things were discovered. First discovery, I have borderline hypothyroidism, which I will get more into another day. Second, my cortisol levels are too high, which I am now controlling with magnolia root. Third, I tested in the high range for a few toxic metals; aluminum and lead. High levels of aluminum in the body has been linked to Alzheimer’s. High levels of lead in the body has been linked to nerve disorders, memory and concentration problems and muscle and joint pain. The aluminum is from using aluminum based non stick cookware and the lead is from using store bought makeup. Crazy isn’t it? I have since thrown out all my cookware and replaced it with either stainless steal or cast iron to reduce my aluminum exposure. I started making my own makeup a few months ago but I didn’t replace everything. Now that I have these results back I am newly committed to replacing all of the toxic makeup in my makeup bag. The only makeup that I use is lipstick, concealer, mascara and very occasionally blush/bronzer for a little sparkle. I made my own organic blush from beets and hibiscus a few months ago so I’ve got that covered. Next and arguably most importantly on my list is lipstick. I wear it nearly everyday and the store bought lipsticks contain unnatural dyes filled with lead. Considering the fact that this stuff goes on your lips, it is safe to assume we ingest a bit of it every time we put it on. I’m done poisoning myself. I can give my lips the color I love without sacrificing my health to do it. I measured, melted and mixed some of my favorite natural ingredients and created a really beautiful, deep red lip color with a hint of purple. I’m simply in love and frankly I’m never buying a lipstick again.
‘Wine Tasting in Burgundy’ DIY Lipstick
Ingredients – makes about 2-3 lipsticks depending on size of container. I used .15 ml Chapstick tubes
- 2 grams beeswax (I use a scale here because hard beeswax is easier to measure this way)
- 1 tsp mango butter
- 1 tsp Shea butter
- 1/2 tsp meadow foam seed oil
- 1/2 tsp sweet almond oil
- 1/4 tsp vitamin e
- 3/4 tsp Australian red reef clay
- 1/4 tsp bentonite clay
- 6 drops essential oil (I used Ylang Ylang)
- Melt together butters/oils in a double boiler or in a glass bowl atop a boiling tea kettle
- Take off heat and add in vitamin e
- In another bowl mix together red reef and bentonite clay
- Add melted oils/butters to clays and mix until well combined
- Add in essential oil and pour into tubes
- Let sit at room temperature for 15-30 minutes to harden
- Apply to lips
- Leave natural lipstick marks on a lucky lover
The rich burgundy color evoked images of me with a wine stained mouth in the rolling green hills of France; hence the title of the lipstick. If your lip color can transport you all the way to Burgundy, you know you’ve got a winner. 😉 If you like your lip color a little less dramatic, just use a little less red reef clay. Enjoy your gorgeous red lips without sacrificing your health. XO ~ Sam
Tuesday was my little love’s 2nd birthday. Yes, I had a precious little Cinco de mayo baby. Poor thing will always have large groups of adults getting wasted on her birthday, a burden she shares with my hubby, born on the 4th of July. Partiers aside, it was a beautiful day full of smiles, sweets and celebrations. 🙂 Marvel has been spoiled silly this year; the celebrations began a few weeks ago at my mother’s house in LA and continued on until last night when we sat down with my in laws for dinner and more cake. I’ve eaten more birthday cake in the last three weeks than I have this entire year. I can’t complain though, I mean really, who complains about cake? The grinch maybe, or fascists? Perhaps nazis would complain about cake. Thankfully I’m none of those things. I absolutely love me some cake.
This delectable cake is a welcome reprieve from the traditional slathered in frosting, chocolate layer cake, that most birthday parties are sporting; which I totally made this last weekend for yet another of Marvel’s birthday parties. This cake is an orange and lemon bundt cake. My mother in law made this in a big flower cake pan so technically the cake you see in the pictures is not a bundt cake but it’s meant to be one. The edges are slightly crusty and taste of caramelized sugar. The inside is moist and spongy with bursts of citrus in every bite. It is an AWESOME birthday cake. Frankly, it is an awesome anytime cake. I ate a small slice after my breakfast this morning. If you haven’t had breakfast dessert yet, let me say, you are sorely missing out. It went absolutely perfectly with my green tea. I made some coconut whipped cream to serve on top and couldn’t have been happier with the pairing. I strongly suggest you serve this cake with some sort of whipped cream. The two go together like peanut butter and jelly. 🙂
Triple Citrus ‘Bundt’ Cake
Adapted from a Martha Stewart Recipe
- Coconut oil for greasing
- 2 3/4 cups flour (I used a gluten free blend of sorghum, teff and white rice flour)
- 3 lemons
- 2 large oranges
- 1 cup coconut sugar, processed super fine in a spice grinder
- 2 tsp baking powder
- 1 3/4 tsp salt
- 3/4 cup coconut cream
- 6 large eggs
- 1 1/2 cups coconut oil
- 1/2 cup fresh squeezed lemon juice
- 1/2 cup fresh squeezed orange juice
- 1 cup coconut sugar, processed super fine in a spice grinder
- Preheat oven to 350 degrees
- Grease a bundt pan with coconut oil
- With a sharp knife, cut away the peel and the white pith of a lemon. Holding the lemon over a bowl, cut between membranes to release segments in the bowl. Here is a handy video on how to do this. Squeeze juice from remaining membranes into another bowl. Repeat with remaining 2 lemons and 2 oranges
- Sift together flour, sugar, baking powder and salt into a bowl
- Add coconut cream and using an electric beater, beat until combined
- Add eggs one at a time beating to combine
- Beat in coconut oil and citrus juices
- Add citrus segments and beat on low just to combine
- Transfer batter to pan and bake rotating pan once until a toothpick comes out clean, about 45 minutes. (If you are using a flatter, larger pan like I did, it will take about 15 minutes less.)
- When cake is done, set on a wire rack to cool for about 20 minutes
- Transfer cake to a shallow dish
- Brush top and sides of cake with syrup below
- Add some sort of whipped cream and make your mouth happy. 🙂
- Bring citrus juices and processed coconut sugar to a boil in a saucepan stirring until sugar is dissolved, boil for 30 seconds more
The clan and I have been doing quite a lot of traveling around these last few weeks. Moving, visiting friends, flying to LA to spend a few days with my family, driving to the beach an hour away for some fun in the sun… all of our little excursions require that we have handy sustenance for the road. Fruit and nuts are our go to car snacks but sometimes it’s nice to have a special treat to nosh on to make that hour fly by more quickly.
These bite sized date balls are that perfect special treat. They are sweet enough to feel like an indulgence yet healthy enough to gobble up 6 of them without feeling those all too familiar pangs of regret. I whipped these up in just under 5 minutes. How groovy is that? Groovier than bell bottoms that hug John Travolta’s perfectly sculpted butt in Saturday Night Fever, I reckon. 😉
You can dress these up with any of your favorite extras. I rolled a few of them in raw cacao powder for an elegant antioxidant boost. You could dip them in melted chocolate if you wanted a more decadent dessert ball. I found that these satisfied my ever present sweet tooth just fine as is.
Raw Energy Balls
- 1 cup walnuts
- 1/2 cup Dates
- 1/4 cup almond butter
- 1/3 cup chia seeds
- 1/2 cup sunflower seeds
- 1/4 cup shredded coconut
- 1/4 cup cacao nibs
- 2 tbsp honey
- 1/4 tsp salt
- Place all ingredients in a food processor
- Process until ingredients are finely chopped and starting to stick together
- Roll into bite sized balls and decorate however tickles your proverbial pickle.
XO ~ Sam
My daughter has been talking up a storm these days. Her favorite words seem to be Mama, Cookie, Please and Thank you; she prefers to use them in this order. Since I am such a dutiful
servant mama I made her some cookies today when she asked for them. If you read my last post you will remember that I have just moved in with my parents in law. I now have many old and beautiful cookbooks at my disposal. One is titled simply, ‘Cookies’. I opened it up this morning and skimmed through while nearly drooling all over the pages. I found a recipe I liked and substituted a few things, honey for white granulated sugar, coconut flour for all purpose. The result is a very crumbly, very delicious, very toddler friendly cookie… My husband came home and ate 3 of them himself. I guess they are pretty husband friendly too. 😉
Orange and Lemon Coconut Cookies
~Paleo, Gluten Free, Vegan, Refined Sugar Free!~
- 1 cup coconut flour
- 1/2 cup arrowroot flour
- 1 tsp baking soda
- 1/4 tsp salt
- 3/4 cup fresh squeezed orange juice
- 1/4 cup fresh squeezed lemon juice
- zest of one orange
- 1/2 cup honey, sub maple syrup if strictly vegan
- 3 tbsp coconut oil, plus more for greasing
- Preheat oven to 325 degrees
- Line a large cookie sheet with parchment paper
- Grease parchment paper with coconut oil
- In a small bowl mix together all dry ingredients, set aside
- In a small saucepan, heat orange, lemon juice, honey and coconut on low heat until it becomes slightly syrupy
- Combine dry ingredients with wet ingredients
- Scoop out little balls onto cookie sheet and slightly flatten with a spatula
- Bake for 10 minutes
- Nom nom nom!
These sweet little cookies are best with a cold, creamy glass of milk. I enjoy almond milk, my little one prefers goat milk. Any kind of milk will complement this cookie perfectly.
XO ~ Sam
Hi, my name is Sam. I’m 30 years old, married, have a 2 year old daughter and I am living with my in laws. This is a reality I could not have guessed for myself. Weren’t you supposed to have your life figured out at 30? Seems the older I get, the more I realize just how clueless I really am. Life is one big experiment and we’re all trying our best to thrive in each moment while dodging the inevitable catastrophic explosions. I won’t get in to the long story with you now but I will say this, my thyroid has been acting up and we had to rule out cancer. For those of you who aren’t familiar with that process, it’s an expensive one. Fortunately, very fortunately, I’m in the clear. Yay!! 😊 UN-fortunately, I’m down nearly 10 grand. Add that to the debt we were already nursing and you’ve got many thousand really good reasons to move in with your parents
As uncomfortable as it can be to share a space with your in laws, especially my in laws, there are enough perks that I think I can overlook the pitfalls for a few months. First, we’ll be saving nearly 3,000 dollars a month. Can you believe that? California, you are so obscenely expensive… good thing you are so effing purty. Secondly, living with my MIL means more help with my daughter. Get this – I was able to just up and drive off to my dentist appointment this morning. I didn’t have to bust my ass finding a sitter I didn’t trust or have to bring her along for a sweaty, traffic filled, hour long car ride. Nope. I.simply.went.by.myself. Gah! It was almost like I was a single unattached adult human again. Aside from the 10 minute tantrum she threw as she clung to my leg, begging me not to go of course. Trivial details darlings. Point is, having G-ma in the same house is granting me daily slivers of much needed freedom. I’m grateful to say the least. Thirdly but arguably most importantly, my MIL is a phenomenal cook. She is of Armenian descent but was born and raised in Turkey. Her cooking is fresh, vibrant, flavorful and I can taste her heritage and her love of food in every bite. She passed along this bread recipe to me yesterday. We baked together for nearly 2 hours. At the end of it I had dough in my hair, flour on my clothes and a belly full of cheese. Not a bad way to spend an afternoon, even if it is with your MIL. 😉
Gluten Free Cheesy Herb Bread
- 2 1/4 cups gluten free flour, I used 1 cup buckwheat, 3/4 cup white rice and 1/2 cup garbanzo
- 3 eggs
- 1- 1 1/2 cup grated manchengo cheese
- 1/4 cup dill, finely chopped
- 1/3 bunch of italian parsley, finely chopped
- 4 stalks of green onion, finely chopped
- 3 tbsp sunflower oil
- 2 tsp baking powder
- 1 tsp salt
My favorite part of cooking with my Mama in law is watching the way she does things. She moves quickly, she makes a mess and she rarely measures anything out. She made a loaf with gluten – I watched her every forceful move and then copied her, sans gluten.
- Preheat oven to 375 degrees
- Throw eggs in a bowl and using either a fork or an electric beater, beat until nice and frothy.
- Add in herbs, onions, oil and salt and mix together until combined – I used my clean hands. It’s more fun that way. 🙂
- Add in flour and baking powder and mix again until well incorporated. Since this recipe is gluten free you don’t have to worry about over mixing! You want to avoid over mixing wheat flour as it activates the gluten and can make your finished product firm, not fluffy and moist like you’d want.
- Pour batter into a greased loaf pan and bake for 45 minutes.
- Let cool, slice and savor.
Happy cooking loves!
XO ~ Sam
PS- Here are some of the pretty things I get to look at every day now… Maybe moving in with your in-laws isn’t all THAT bad after all. 😉
I’m a big proponent of morning rituals. Starting my day with healthy routines can calm and center me for the busyness that lies ahead. I begin nearly every morning with at least 5-10 minutes of Vipassana meditation. I then enjoy a glass of room temperature water with lemon to get my digestive juices flowing. Next is breakfast. My daughter and I both adore eggs. She prefers hers scrambled, I prefer mine over medium. Two eggs with a thick golden runny yolk, dripping over a slice of perfectly toasted whole grain gluten free bread, slathered with ghee and chia seeds? Oh baby. My belly is happy, I’m happy, everyone around me is happy. 🙂
Although a nice consistent morning routine centers me, the adventurer in me gets restless every once in awhile. So this morning I was inspired to get a little creative. Wanting to stick with eggs, as I’ve noticed they provide me with the best fuel for my morning, I decided on deviled. I adore me some deviled eggs. If you ever happen to find yourself at a party with me and a platter of deviled eggs and you fancy a few for yourself, I’d advise not leaving them sitting around for too long. I have absolutely no self control around those things. I’ll have popped 6 of them before you take your first bite. I may have a bit of a problem. Is there a Deviled Eggs Anonymous? No, I think not. That acronym’s already been taken after all and I doubt advertising a DEA meeting would attract very many attendees. ANYHOO…
Although I do love the little buggers as they are, in all their mayo slathered glory, I decided to play around with a more wholesome version that would still dazzle the taste buds. I think what I came up with will excite you, I’m certainly a little twitterpated by them. 😉
Devilishly Delicious Angelic Eggs
- 12 hard boiled eggs, peeled and cut lengthwise
- 1 avocado
- 1/2 cup plain goat yogurt
- 3 tsp Apple cider vinegar
- 4 tsp Dijon mustard
- 1/2 tsp black pepper
- 1/2 tsp salt
- 1/4 tsp cumin
- 1/4 tsp coriander
- 1/4 tsp turmeric
- 5 pepperoncinis finely chopped, I like this all natural brand
- Once hard boiled eggs are cool, remove egg yolks from egg whites and place in a medium bowl.
- Add in all other ingredients except pepperoncinis.
- Using a hand mixer on low, beat until smooth and creamy
- Add in pepperoncinis and gently incorporate with a spoon.
- Fill the hollow egg white halves with egg yolk mixture. If you have a pastry bag, this will look the most refined. If you don’t, no worries, a spoon will do the trick.
- Sprinkle the tops with a touch more of any or all of the spices used in the recipe.
- Voila! Serve these with a slice of toast for breakfast or next to a big salad for lunch/dinner.
Happy Eating friends!